Day: July 9, 2006

Hey ( Sigh)

To all my single sisters/brothers. Do you ever wonder why you are single sometimes? I know there are some areas that I need to brush up on, but I really wonder why I am still single.

Maybe Im too hard on men. I must admit, when I hear guys say “she cooked for me” and Im like saying to myself ” nicka what have you done so great to deserve a home cook meal’? Did you work today and tell me of the plans you made for a week in Florida? Did you take one of my phone bill stubs and paid my bill? Did you go to the grocery store and buy dinner “on the strength of”? Did you come over my house and clean up while I wasnt feeling well? Im just trying to understand the motivation of why women cook for men they just meet?

Now dont get me wrong. I can see it in a relationship. But men love home cook meals and they are like cats in the department…………………..they will come back. I mean, I just cant see myself going in my refrigerator looking at my steaks, salad and bake potatoes  offering it to him, when he can at ANY TIME say to me~ when I ask him to do something special …….WE DONT GO TOGETHER…….WE AINT A COUPLE……….I AINT YOUR MAN……..WE AINT SLEPT TOGETHER……..AINT NO RING ON MY FINGER.

For now, I rather let the resturants cook for us. After he is my husband……………………its on and poppin! Until then, I’ll by dinner day, he;ll buy the other, he’ll buy another day, and I’ll buy…..and so on and so on.

Making dinner, eating home cook meals for a man should be personal. Not for ALL the men we meet and date.

What are your thoughts?