Men Who Cheat and Consequences/Kevin Hart/Blog

  Oh boy!!!! Are words I blurt out when I see trouble or about to hear bad news. And OH BOY (( say it quickly)) is one I have to use for Kevin Hart. But this is not all about Kevin.  When I first saw Torrei Hart on Hollywood Wives, I liked her. I knew sheContinue reading “Men Who Cheat and Consequences/Kevin Hart/Blog”

How I Gained Back My Self Esteem/ PART 2/BLOG

I was 24 years old (( 6 years in)) when I FINALLY came to my MIND. When I started talking to God about what I was going through. I thought that I would never get over my daughters father. The more sex I had with him, the more I loved him. That’s when I foundContinue reading “How I Gained Back My Self Esteem/ PART 2/BLOG”

How I Lost And Gained Back My SELF ESTEEM/BLOG/PART 1 OF 2

When I think about my purpose in life sometimes, all I can think of is that I’m suppose to be helping other women. I say that because no matter where I am, or what I’m doing, women always talk to me, and its usually about their issues with themselves, men, and getting over past hurt.Continue reading “How I Lost And Gained Back My SELF ESTEEM/BLOG/PART 1 OF 2”

Just things/BLOG

Today is a good day. I’m writing down my thoughts. Things that’s on my mind, things I need to do, things I think about for my future. Just things. Last night, I was thinking about how we want something so badly and never realize that we already had/ have it. Sometimes it takes years andContinue reading “Just things/BLOG”

Losing yourself in a MAN/BLOG

Hey! I was talking to one of my closes friends a few days ago about how she should make it her business to be around couples who are doing well for themselves  ((mainly husband and wives)) so that she can see how it LOOKS to be happy. She’s going through a WHOLE lot with herContinue reading “Losing yourself in a MAN/BLOG”

MY story of FORGIVENESS-RAPE/PART 2/BLOG

Later on that night he called me and told me how good it was seeing me again, how pretty I still was, and how he told his family that I came to see him. We caught up on a lot of things, and still I couldn’t fix my mouth to ask him the REAL reasonContinue reading “MY story of FORGIVENESS-RAPE/PART 2/BLOG”

MY story of FORGIVENESS-RAPE/PART 1/BLOG

Oct 22, 2014 I received an inbox from my ex boyfriend asking me to call him. When I first saw his message my heart started beating fast because of what happened 30 years ago. His name alone bought back memories of that night in August a month before my 18th birthday.  I was hesitate atContinue reading “MY story of FORGIVENESS-RAPE/PART 1/BLOG”

Men control in different ways/BLOG

To WOMEN who are in controlling RELATIONSHIPS…. RUN RUN RUN!!! You don’t have to put up with that mess. If a man can’t meet half way and learn to LISTEN and COMPROMISE… then there is no reason to be with him. Men control in different ways. If you’re not working and living in his home,Continue reading “Men control in different ways/BLOG”

It’s NOT okay! BLOG

Lately, I’ve been having deep conversations with several young women, and it bothers me so deeply what many are allowing these men to do to them. As I listen, I can’t help but think about the time when I was their ages and allow men to say and do things to me as well. TheContinue reading “It’s NOT okay! BLOG”

#FIFTY SHADES/ FIFTY SHADES OF GREY/ PART 2 OF MY STORY/BLOG

(Continued) #FIFTYSHADES  I realized what he was doing…..he was interviewing. I thought to myself…. “I know dayum well he aint the one doing the interviewing.” Now… I’m staring at him. He’s so dayum fine …he catches my eye. I found it hard to turn away. I was nervous. I can’t be interviewed by him because I know me…Continue reading “#FIFTY SHADES/ FIFTY SHADES OF GREY/ PART 2 OF MY STORY/BLOG”