Just wondering………………again!

I have this friend name (M) who has 4 gurls by this woman name ( S) they live together.  Been together since she was 14. The oldest is 18 and the baby is about 7. 
 
Moe has a whole nother family with several other women which is about 4 kids or more. I dont know if Shawn has seen his other kids, but she surely knows about them.
 
I was the one who introduced them to each other when she was about 14. She is 36 now. He is 40.
I love him, he is my baby. But I hate the fact that I am friends with them both and he is out there with familes all over the city. He is the coolest guy you could ever meet, but how do a man get caught up in a life like this?
 
Today I was talking to him on the phone, and I asked him, why do you still live with Shawn and  out there cheating on her like that with all these other women? I asked him why wont you set her free then you can go be with all those other women. I asked him why is it hard to choose? He didnt answer. He viewed my questions as I was trying to \”figure him\” out.  Or like I was \”trying to get inside the heads of men\”.
 
I love my friend, but dang dont it come a time in your life where you get tired of doing the same ole thang? Dont it come a time when you just confess your mess and try to make things right?
 
My friend M is selfish, and only thinking about himself. His kids dont know each other, the kids on the side dont know their grand parents, cousins, or aunts. That is so not fair to everyone involved.
 
MY questions is: Why havent S left him? What is it that keeps a her in HIS mess? Why is it hard for him to leave his home, especially if he wants to be else where? 
 
From this day on, I will try my best to live my life in a way pleasing to God. Because I want my name in the Book of Life~~ Lacrease

Celebrating our Father!

Yall see that  gurl up there?????? She loves her some God.

 I dont know why, but I can look at  something, anything  and get 5 spiritual lessons from it. A \”normal\” person would just see  that  for what it is and that would be the end of it. Aint nothing wrong with that…….not one thang. But as for me I truly believe that God \”wired\” me up something different.

A few weeks ago I was with my daughter taking care of some business when  we were at the red light waiting for it to change. As Im waiting, I look over and see what appears to be a homeless man on his bike with his dog………..also waiting for the light to change. I looked at his dog who was very

attentive. Every move the man made the dog made too. The dog kept watching his master, not only making sure that he doesn\’t leave him, but to make sure that he knew his every move. If anyone came too hurt the man or dog, you betta believe that they had each others back. Had I hollered out of my car and said \”come here boy, come here doggy\” that dog would have looked at me…… barked, and said to himself \”yeah whateva I don\’t know you like that playa\”! You know why? Cause that dog knows where his dinner comes from. That dog knows that aint nobody gonna treat him like his master.
 
As we are at the light waiting for it to turn. I just burst out crying. My daughter was like maaa what\’s wrong with you? ( She knows Im sensitive) She said are you crying over that dog? I know you are! I said boo, you just see the dog, I see something else.
 
I begin to explain to her what God revealed to me. If that man represents God and the dog represent us (his children) here is how the story will look. When God makes a move in our lives we are supposed to MOVE! Not sit at the \”corner\” while the light is green watching our master cross the street. We are suppose to be right there with him! If  Satan atempts  to try to take us away from our master, we are to be just like that dog and respond with a bark so loud………to let him know that he (God) is our master, and that he is where our help comes from and that Satan has no place in our lives.
 
If you took that same dog, blind folded him, and had 10 people call to him, that dog will bark the loudest at his master because he knows his voice. When we spend time with God, we will know his voice. WE don\’t have to ask \”gurl how do you know his voice\”? We\’ll automatically know.
If you and your mom was at the grocery store, and she was in one aisle and you in another, wouldnt you know her voice from all the others? Yes! Because you have spent time with her. When she says to you. ok Im done shopping, aint it time to roll out with her? Yes, cause aint nobody else gon take care of you, or take you home ( without gas money) lol like momma.
 
We should be just like that dog…………to keep our eyes on our master. Not at one time did that dog want to be separated from his master. Yes, Satan will throw things (A CAT) in the dogs path to get his eyes off his master. But he knows that if he is too focus on that cat, his master will be still walking on across the street, that dog will eventually  have to stop chasing that cat, and catch up with his master.
 
I pray in Jesus name that you all got this. I didnt want to write it, but my master said I had too.
 
God bless
Lacrease
 

Psalm 121 (New International Version)

A song of ascents.

 1 I lift up my eyes to the hills—
       where does my help come from?

 2 My help comes from the LORD,
       the Maker of heaven and earth.

 3 He will not let your foot slip—
       he who watches over you will not slumber;

 4 indeed, he who watches over Israel
       will neither slumber nor sleep.

 5 The LORD watches over you—
       the LORD is your shade at your right hand;

 6 the sun will not harm you by day,
       nor the moon by night.

 7 The LORD will keep you from all harm—
       he will watch over your life;

 8 the LORD will watch over your coming and going
       both now and forevermore
.

 
From this day on, I will try my best to live my life in a way pleasing to God. Because I want my name in the Book of Life~~ Lacrease

My Yahoo 360 Men!

ImageImage

ImageImageImageImage

100_0089Time is of the essence

You know what? This week is Men week. I feel like giving them shout outs all week long!

I was sitting here thinking. And you dont have to say a word, dont have to comment. Just look at it as if I was talking to myself…………..ok? OK

If I was to make myself a MAN out of a few of the MEN on my page this is what I’ll come up with. AND DONT SAY IM CRAZY……….IM JUST SERIOUS. LOLLLL

I aint go hear the last of this! lol

Will I am~ Teeth and smile

Lamarr’s~ Marraige Minded Mentality and Lips

Majic Mike’s~Big Ole Stomach ( love a man with a stomach)

KD’s~ Complextion

Ruczilla’s~ My Husband,

Dlovell3’s ~ Thickness

Phat Daddy’s~ Job ( Love a man whose into the Law)

Milton’s~ Love and his eyes

Photos are not in any order, just as I could get them. Hope yall dont mind.

Lacrease

 

 

Men………gotta love em!


Stock Photo of a Well Dressed Man Sitting at Computer Desk With Glasses
 

Why come yesterday while at work, I was coming out of the bathroom, when all of a sudden this guy that I use to talk to came out of no where  and started telling me that he just bought a house.in one of the best neighborhoods, a brand new truck, got a better job paying $3,000 more a year, and all this other stuff. Then before I can say anything he says: Well ok bye…… I gotta go…… see ya later.

 So naturally Im standing there looking like dayummmmmmm…………where all that come from? I aint seent ( slang) you in Lawd knows how long. And here you come dropping all this in my lap………..and Im not even at home… Im at work. Like Im suppose to stop, drop and roll up at your “new” house. Naw…..um um………..

Now Im thinking to myself ok, does he want to see if Im going to call him later when I get home? Cause I guess you know…………..he dont know me like that!

We never did anything, he cant seem to figure out why,even though he looks good Lawdddddd!!!!!!!! Whew, he is tall about 6’7 dark like I like em, thick with a stomach made just for rubbing and taking naps on, he makes good money, he’s a business man, he comes from a good family. He drives the best! No kids, and live alone!

But its just something about him that I wasnt feeling.

He was the type of man that figure well if you dont want me, then you must feel intimidated by my success. But it soooooooooo wasnt that. My thang is this, stop telling me what you got and let me see for myself. Because my point is this: What good will all that do for me, if you have 4-5 women running in and out of your life. If I was #1 and I knew it because of your actions and how you made me feel, then sure we can kick it like that. But when you have to tell me everything you got, instead of going with the flow of things, then to me  you hiding something else.

I have been with men who didnt tell me nothing or brag about himself. When he picked me up he was driving the nicest car, when I went to his house it was laid out, when I went to visit his family they had it going on. I hate when a man feel that he has to “tell” me what he has. Just let a sistah see for herself what chu working with. She’ll love you for it.

Cre promise

 

Growing up……….putting away childish things!

Growing up……… I was the kinda  gurl who would get an F on my school work and report card  before I would ask the teacher to explain and go over the assignment with me. I was too shy, and didn\’t want to feel \”dumb\” because I didn\’t understand. I would stare in horror as the others picked up their pen and pencils to begin their assignment. I would pick up mines too, drift off mentally and wish that I could disappear because I \”felt\” so stupid.
((((((((Yahoo 360 group hug)))))))))
 
But Thank God for Jesus!!!!!!!!!!! ( laughing)
 
I dont know what day it was that I came out of it, but Thank you Jesus I\’m not that same person today.
 
One day I realized that everybody was finding out the things that they wanted and needed to know, but I was the one who didn\’t know jack! I never asked questions, I would always put somebody up to it for me.
Till God started putting me in situations that I needed to speak up for myself, or ask the questions for myself because no one else was with me. I never wanted to go places alone because of this.
 
All my life I wanted to be either a Lawyer, or an interrogator. But I guess you know in those careers you need to be able to communicate and ask questions. Well, I couldn\’t be either one of those because of my shyness and self esteem.
 
Today, I ask so many question……………its a shame! lol Its so funny to me, because when I tell people how I use to be they dont believe me, because of how outspoken and to the point I am. I dont hurt people\’s feelings, I just wanna know the truth!!!!! I want to get to the bottom of any situation.
 
Let give yall an example: If my gurl call me and say \”Lacrease guess who I just saw at the gas station (she lives her in Detroit so I hear this a lot\”? I would say who gurl who? Anita Baker!!!!
Here are my questions:
  • Where was she at
  • What she have on
  • What did she say
  • Who was she with
  • What time was this
  • What kinda car she have
  • What was she doing
  • Who was she talking too\’
  • Did anybody say anything to her?
  • Was she acting funny?
  • Was she with her kids (noticed I already asked this question but in a different way)
Yes, that is me. and people that know me, knows that I will ask these questions inside of 3 minutes. They get soooooooooooo mad at me, and say dangggggggg I shouldn\’t have never told you that! lol I MAKE THEM ANSWER EVERY QUESTION TO MY SATISFACTION. LOL
 
The reason why I ask this question is because the bible says: 11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 1 Corinthians 13:11 (King James Version)
 
Share something that you USE to do that could have held you back in life, but you put away childish things.
 
God Bless
Lacrease
Pearls of Wisdom
 
 
Where works of the flesh exists, there is NO joy

Guess whose back!!!!!!! Its ya gurl…………theycallCredog!

Hey!

Mannnnnnnn I miss you guys! What is going on? My computer is finally up and running. My modem blew out, and this computer is just one year old. So I had to run up and down the stairs to use my other computer, which is old and only has aol 7.0. So just imagine how it was trying to do things. I tried not to get too far behind with my emails, but I just couldnt keep up with yahoo 360. I wanted a new page, and new photos, and it just wasnt happening. Plus I think God was trying to tell me something any way. I will sit at this computer on my off days, and when I get home from work with no discipline at all. But you know what? Thats gonna change! And thats on everythang. Im not going to log on until my house work is done. ( dogone shame) lol.

I wanted to go back and read some of you guys blogs, but whew chile I dont think I can do it. I know my nosey self will be on here all night and all day trying to comment. So I decided to start at Monday\’s blog.

To all my peeps who have been sending me shout outs and where ya ats, your gurl is back in the house!

Well, let me do a little catching up and I will be back lata.

Lacrease

 

Part 2 MUST READ

Ok, So to the 4 people that said yes to my poll. Im assuming a few are women.

( this is before sex is even  mentioned) WOULD YOU ASK A GUY TO CUT YOUR GRASS THAT YOU JUST MET? AND IF THE ANSWER IS NO, WHY? SINCE YOU WOULD LET HIM HAVE YOUR BODY.

Design a site like this with WordPress.com
Get started