Why come yesterday while at work, I was coming out of the bathroom, when all of a sudden this guy that I use to talk to came out of no where and started telling me that he just bought a house.in one of the best neighborhoods, a brand new truck, got a better job paying $3,000 more a year, and all this other stuff. Then before I can say anything he says: Well ok bye…… I gotta go…… see ya later.
So naturally Im standing there looking like dayummmmmmm…………where all that come from? I aint seent ( slang) you in Lawd knows how long. And here you come dropping all this in my lap………..and Im not even at home… Im at work. Like Im suppose to stop, drop and roll up at your “new” house. Naw…..um um………..
Now Im thinking to myself ok, does he want to see if Im going to call him later when I get home? Cause I guess you know…………..he dont know me like that!
We never did anything, he cant seem to figure out why,even though he looks good Lawdddddd!!!!!!!! Whew, he is tall about 6’7 dark like I like em, thick with a stomach made just for rubbing and taking naps on, he makes good money, he’s a business man, he comes from a good family. He drives the best! No kids, and live alone!
But its just something about him that I wasnt feeling.
He was the type of man that figure well if you dont want me, then you must feel intimidated by my success. But it soooooooooo wasnt that. My thang is this, stop telling me what you got and let me see for myself. Because my point is this: What good will all that do for me, if you have 4-5 women running in and out of your life. If I was #1 and I knew it because of your actions and how you made me feel, then sure we can kick it like that. But when you have to tell me everything you got, instead of going with the flow of things, then to me you hiding something else.
I have been with men who didnt tell me nothing or brag about himself. When he picked me up he was driving the nicest car, when I went to his house it was laid out, when I went to visit his family they had it going on. I hate when a man feel that he has to “tell” me what he has. Just let a sistah see for herself what chu working with. She’ll love you for it.