How to Talk to Kids About Personal Boundaries

“I never imagined I’d need to ask this out loud. But when was the last time you looked a child in the eyes—your daughter, your niece, your godson—and said, ‘If someone ever touches you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, you can tell me. Always’?”

  • Don’t wait for a “reason.” Start age-appropriate conversations early so it never feels like a one-time scary topic.
  • Let kids know that nothing is off limits—they can talk to you about anything without fear of punishment or disbelief.

👂 Believe and Support, First and Always

  • If a child shares something, believe them. That moment can shape the rest of their healing journey.
  • Validate their feelings without rushing to “fix it”—sometimes presence is more powerful than immediate action.

⚖️ Don’t Stay Silent—Speak Up

  • If your gut is sounding the alarm, don’t ignore it. Whether someone said something, or you just sense something’s wrong, trust your instincts.
  • Taking action might mean confronting someone, getting authorities involved, or simply documenting behaviors and keeping a close watch. Silence protects predators—truth protects children.
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