Hello Everyone out there?
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 Well, guess what my friend called last night. I talked to him briefly, but made it my business to return his call today. I left him a message, but maybe an hour later afterward he called but never listened to it. So that told me that he was thinking about calling before he even knew there was a message waiting. Well, anyway we talked and had a good conversation about school, and his experience of living below his means. He is a very professional person and loves to dress. So IM saying to myself. I am a plan Jane gurl who is not into being “sharp” but being clean is my thing. As long as my clothes are clean, I don’t care. So after we talked about clothes, we talked about colleges and how neighborhoods that he grew up in that he would never want to raise his children. He said that it was hard for him growing up, and that it was also hard for him in school (college as well). We had a really good conversation today. So we started talking about the things we like, so I said to him well, when you are done I too want to share what my likes and dislikes are. I guess I caught him completely off guard to make him say, okayyyy you go first. lollllllll Im laughing cause I threw him completely off.
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I told him first of all I don’t like when a guy come off in the beginning as wanting to have sex. I said Im not into that. I said first of all before I have sex with you (if any) I need to know if you can be a friend! I said that is free you can get that anywhere, and by me knowing that, it just aint happening! He was like okay I see, I understand.
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Later on I was talking to my sister and I was telling her about my friend. And I said you know how you go to a new job, and you have to wait a year for vacation time? I said if we start treating these men like our bodies are like vacation time, then they would know how the procedure works. They wouldn’t ask for sex. I said, they ask for your body like they have been on the job for a year. If you cant walk up in a job and get vacation time cause you haven’t put up any time, then you sho cant get my body for the same reasons. You can’t even get holiday pay inside 90 days, what the hell have you done to feel as if you deserve my body? I mean for real!!!
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You don’t just go asking your boss for a raise? Its just like that with my body, you have to earn that. And it aint by talking on the phone everyday either, its by marriage. Its be being together, its by trusting God, its by spending time together, its by being patience with each other, its a combination of things, but in the beginning you dont have it like that boo. And if you understand that early in our friendship, then we will get along just fine.
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Where works of the flesh exists, there is NO joy
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