Day: June 11, 2006

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My daughter and her dad!

Hello Family!
 
Today was a good day. Got up this morning, chatted on the phone with my brother-in-law for a minute, went in the kitchen and cooked me some collard greens, fried chicken and some corn bread, had me a ice cold Pepsi and by 6 o clock it was ON AND POPPIN!
 
Your gurl was throwing down! Do ya here me??? lol
 
But that\’s not why Im here today. I have a question and I need honest opinions on this. Men step up to the plate as far as your feelings too.
 
Ok…………. my daughter who is 19. She is my only child, she\’s in college, and  lives at home. She has a relationship with her dad, ( not close at all) his mom ( very close),  and his whole family ( close).  Well, any way, her dad called her yesterday and told her that he was moving to Atlanta with his wife and son on today (Sunday). And that he was coming to see her today ( Sunday). But he was going to try to leave on Monday. So today after so many hours had passed, she called him and asked him was he still coming over to see her before he leaves. He was like yessss I\’ll be over there as soon as he was done with what ever he was doing. It started getting late, and she seemed to be really looking forward to him coming. She wont tell me if she was or not, cause she know I\’ll get mad.( since he end up not coming).
 
Well, here it is 2:55 in the morning and he has not called or came over. I knowwwwwww she wants to see him before he leaves. See I know him, his heart has no intentions on NOT coming over, but his actions shows that he didn\’t come.  See what Im saying? So to him, he dont look at it as standing her up, he looks at it like dang I didn\’t make it over to see my baby today. But I TRIED! And I dont understand that. He dont understand the importance of his presense. He just dont get it.
 
Now, we dont know if he left, or if he\’s leaving tomorrow or what. He hasn\’t called (as usual). Ok, now Im pissed, I want to call him and go straight off. Something I haven\’t done in over 12 years. Im real mad about it.
 
Why?
 
Because my daughter is humble she aint gonna say nothing. I think she is waiting to become a Judge and them sock it to him. I dunno. But thatgurltheycallCredog, is ready to git em gurllllllllllll ( Madea) lol. Im ready to holla at home boy. Im veryyyyy angry about this.
 
So my question to you all. Should I be mad that he didn\’t call or visit her? Am I wrong for wanting to call his cell phone and let him have it? Am I wrong for stepping into a situation of my daughters after all she is grown? Should I let her handle it?
 
TELL ME THE TRUTH FAMILY!!!! BE HONEST WITH ME
 
LACREASE
 
Where works of the flesh exists, there is NO joy
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