Door wide open!

Hey,

Ok, I have a serious question that I need to ask you all. I really need your opinion on this okay? When everyone has commented, Im going to print it out and take it to my friend, who is waiting to hear your replies.

Ok, here it is. My friend has a 10 year old son, and a 4 year old daughter. Now when she uses the bathroom , she sometimes leave the bathroom door open. She talks to her son with him in the bathroom and with the door open. If she is doing number 2 she still will talk to him with the door open.

Recently her boyfriend moved in. They go to Church together, he loves the Lord and is a Christian just like her. Well, he feels that its disrespectful to her son, as well as him to have the bathroom door open when she is using it. She tells her boyfriend, that she was doing it before he got there and she see\’s nothing wrong with it. And therefore she will continue to do it.

They called me this morning, arguing about it asking my opinion. I told her how I felt about it ( will share later after you all response) she still felt that in the end, its his opinion and thats all it is.

So I told her that when we go to work in the morning, pull 10 people to the side and tell them the story without using names, and see how they feel about it.

But tonight Im asking you all. What do you think?

NO MORE DRAMA!

Whats going on family? I really miss you guys when I dont post. I know I need to work on this, and as soon as I do get out 2 or 3 entry’s. I disappear again. I have got to get back on track. And stay there! LOL

These last few weeks I have really learned a lot about people and the way that they think. Im learning everyday, you can’t make people be a certain way, and sho not act a certain way either. People doing and being who they are. And you know what? I aint even mad……….. no more. Yep, I use to get mad at people when they dont see things my way. I would diss dey a** in a heartbeat. But you know what? People are going to be themselves, its just about time, Lacrease realize that God didnt make 2 of her. lol

I’m a person who dont like gossip or drama. I cant stand it. I cant stand drama Kings nor Queens. I have no tollerance for them at ALL. I can see them coming a mile away, and I will zip my lips in a heart beat. Others dont see it. Sometimes I feel as if Im the only one who can see some bull jumping off. And here I have to wait on God to show them what he showed me 10 weeks ago, AND THE WAIT KILLS ME!!!!!!!!

Then when I dont have no comment or nothing to say, its like dang Lacrease why you aint saying nothing?

Its about to be a new year, and all VIRUSES will be removed! Today I purchased my anti-virus soft ware, and Im cleaning house on ALL  people who are invected! I have teens to minister too, and there is no way I can deal with others and their drama, when I have work to do from God. That mess intercepts my blessings.  AND YOU’S A LIE!

So with all of this said: Here is a video to prove the seriousness of this entry! Please watch it to the end!

 

 

Lacrease

 

 

 

Read my eyes………!

Growing up in my neighborhood, we didnt have \”haters\”. ( I dont think)

Im 39 years old and I hate to see or hear people use that word, but you know what? Do you know what? I mean do you really wanna know what? THERE ARE SOME HATERS OUT THERE!

Let me just tell you about me. Im a person who is always smiling, I\’m the same person everyday. You wont have to look at my face to see what kind of mood Im in. Im not coming out of a  bag on you. I cant help if Im a happy person all the time. Im sorry. If you want to walk around with your face all bald up and disfigured……then go head. do what you do, but dont get in my atmosphere like im suppose to convert to your ways. It aint go happen! BOO

God has been to good to me, for me to walk around looking ugly in the face. Thats not who I am. I once heard a coworker say, how can such and such be that happy? I said Jesus. Thats how! If you dont understand it, say that. But dont ask that question in a way where you just think its impossible to smile everyday.

Me and my coworker KiKi  and Leanna talk about God all the time at work, we will go in the bathroom and pray for each other, we will talk on our lunch breaks , we always talk to people and encourage them, but walking around making faces because you are unhappy……………………………..um um!

People at work, they dont like to see us smiling and talking about God. That always have something to say. Its just  unreal to me how people are not happy and dont want to see you happy. I just dont get that. Whats in the inside of me is spilling out on the outside. And its going to get better.

So I say this to say. People are watching you. Just by smiling you can make someone\’s day.

thatgurltheycallcre

Body Language, Eye contact, and Colonge!

Hey,

Don\’t they look sexy? Ahhhh, See thats what I\’mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm talking about! Check out the body language. Sometimes when men come through my line, smelling good, tall and have eyes that say words that the lips can\’t say. That melts me. Im into body language, and eye contact. OOO and don\’t let the scent of their colonge hit my nose, ahhhhh its on! The smell of colonge puts me in a trance. But if they have on a wedding ring, it ends there!

So, ladies what is your favorite colonge on a man? How does it make you feel?

 

“Helping God”

Good Sunday Evening!

Got up this morning and went to 9:30 service, my Pastor Vann taught from the book of Genesis. Abraham and Sarah! How God promised them a son, but as Sarah started becoming old, she felt as though she wouldn’t have a child. So she took it upon herself to “help God†and decided that she was going to give her husband permission to have relations with Hagar, her maid, so that God’s promise would come to past.

Well, after Hagar conceived, she started to look down on Sarah. God came to Sarah again and said:

 Genesis 21

 1 Now the LORD was gracious to Sarah as he had said, and the LORD did for Sarah what he had promised. 2 Sarah became pregnant and bore a son to Abraham in his old age, at the very time God had promised him. 3 Abraham gave the name Isaac [a] to the son Sarah bore him. 4 When his son Isaac was eight days old, Abraham circumcised him, as God commanded him. 5 Abraham was a hundred years old when his son Isaac was born to him.

 6 Sarah said, “God has brought me laughter, and everyone who hears about this will laugh with me.” 7 And she added, “Who would have said to Abraham that Sarah would nurse children? Yet I have borne him a son in his old age.”

 With that said…….we’ve got to stop trying to help God with the process of what he already promised us. There’s a situation going on in my life, where I called myself hoping it would happen but end up“helping God†and end up messing things up for myself, and here I sit… sick about it. But you know what? Not anymore! I have made amends and I am letting it go, just as it was told to me by this person. So, I say all of this to say, if God has already promised you something, quit trying to help him, help you get it done faster. God don’t need help, he is God, and God alone.

Yeah, I learned a lesson over the week, but you know what? If I could stop you from making the same mistakes………..PLEASE TAKE MY ADVICE. Let God do his work and you do yours!

La’Crease

“You can have the title, I’ll take the anointing” ~ Angela Armstrong ~ AIMSK

 

Thanksgiving………..a time to be greateful and to give Thanks!

Virgo
(Aug. 23-Sep. 22)

It’s time to fully obey the law of spiritual detachment. In other words, learn to let go! The more you cling to a desired outcome, the more you block your highest good from manifesting naturally in your life.
 

Hello Yahoo Family!
 
I read my horoscope for Thanksgiving and that is what it said. Its funny too because someone told me the same thing this just a few days ago. That is just too deep. To my friend if you’re reading, your right! All I can say is WOW.
 
Today is Thanksgiving and I personally have so much to be thankful for. First, my parents for loving me and caring for me that way that you did, just to hear your voice or see you in person weekly makes my day. You just don’t know how grateful your children are to have you both. My 2 sisters and my brother.
 
 Growing up we weren’t allowed to fight, so we used our mouths to argue, ain’t it funny now, how we communicate so well not only with each other, but in the world. We are surely sisters and brothers who can get the things we need and desire because of your strong ability to communicate. Thank you Jesus. We may not have experience in fighting, but we shoo know how to negotiate!!!!! LOL
 
Thank you Lord for my daughter Neisha! My one and only child. Lord thank you so much for introducing me to her 20 years ago. She is my heart, my ace of spade, my #1 gurl! I love her so, so so much, Lord, and you know I always tell you this, if you were to take her from me tomorrow, I would cry, and probably be sad for a good while. But for all the joy that came with her, I would understand your ways of doing things. You loaned her to me and her dad, and I understand that. So I wanted you to know that I Thank you from the bottom of my heart for showing me “real love”.
 
Thank you Lord for my nieces and nephews. I see them so much, I think they think that I am their second momma! LOL Lord, thank you for blessing me beyond what I deserve!
 
And to my Yahoo 360 family. Lord what have I been missing all these years? They have been there for me more than I could imagine. They checked up on me when GL died, just like a face to face family member would do. And I’ll neverrrrr ever forget that.
 
So I say Thank you Lord for blessing me with this life, and if its your will ( looking up at you ) I will see you whenever the street light come on for me, and my life on earth is over! I’ll see you face to face.
 

3 John 1 (New International Version)

 13 I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. 14I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face.
      Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name

 
I love you all
Lacrease
 
 
 

My last goodbyes to my friend ……..Gerald Levert!

 

 

 

 Gerald said that I was his #1 Gurl!

 

Hello Family!

 

Thanks to everyone who sent me love and hugs through email……..Lacrease sure did need them. Thanks sooooooo much!

 

This morning in Church I was thinking back on how good God is, how he will make a way out of no way. How he does things in his time…..not ours. As I was thinking back on his goodness. I thought about how he answered a prayer for me, and how when things turned out the way they did, I couldnt understand it for the life of me…….why. Now I understand so clearly.

 

I was working when this lady came through my line buying a Gerald Levert CD. And the first thing out of my mouth was \”youre buying my husbands CD\”? We both laughed,  she told me how much she loved her some Gerald Levert. We stood there talking for a long long long time. We started talking about the concert that was coming up. I told her that I couldnt find anyone to go with me, so I went out and bought me a ticket to go solo, AND GOD BLESSED ME  TO SIT IN THE FRONT ROW. She said omg I bought tickets too, my sisters are going with me. We exchanged phone numbers and decided to all go together.

 

I met her at the concert, met her sisters and everything. We started getting cool, talking about Gerald all the time on the phone, then she would come shopping at Walmart and come through my line. We would talk about his  play Casino that was coming up. Then one day I was sitting in my car getting ready to go in to work, when a commerical came on to win tickets to a private party dinner party for him. He was giving out autographs, photos everything with him in a SECRET LOCATION. The only way to go to this private party was to win tickets!!!! I sat in my car thinking that I had to be at this party, but it was THE VERY NEXT DAY, and I was headed in to work.

 

Later that evening, Pat came in and she said gurlllllllllllllllllll did you hear the private party that Gerald is having? I was like yessssssssss, she said Crease Im going home and Im calling the radio station and we are going to see Gerald. I told her to go head and get started and when I get home we can do it together. That night I got home, it was late, we hooked up, we both called the radio station trying to be the 8th caller. Can you imagine a 38 year old and a 40 something women calling the radio station trying to win tickets? We couldnt get through, it was in the last hour. I was ready to give up! Pat called me about later 12 ish screaming in the phone, hollerring LACREASE WERE GOING TO SEE GERALD LEVERT, WERE GOING TO SEE GERALD LEVERT! Im like Pat quit lying, are you serious? She was like yesssssssssssssss Lacrease we are going, she said gurl I cant breathe, gurl hold on a min, it was sooooooooooooo funny. So once I finally believe her, it came on the radio and I knew she was telling the truth. She  kept screaming LACREASE WE ARE GOING TO SEE GERALD LEVERTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!

 

Then I started thinking. I said Pat what are your sisters going to say about me going with you and you only have 2 tickets? She said Lacrease they love Gerald but not like we do. I started getting worried that when she call them and tell them, they would want to go. She said Lacrease, dont worry you are going, they only go to concerts with me so that I wont be alone. I kept saying Pat you sure, cause gurl Im geeked. She called her sisters on the 3way and they were like Lacrease yall go and have a good time, we dont want to go, we are just glad that she found someone who love Gerald that way she does. I was happy. I COULDNT STOP THANKING HER!

 

We made plans for the next day, and we were on our way! The location was the most elegant hotel in our city. It was very private about 75-100 guest. Your name had to be on the list, and we were in the HOUSE!

 

That night was truly one of the best nights of my life. After the private party, me Gerald, Pat and his SO COOL ONE AND ONLY…………….. bodyguard BIG Joe( in the white shirt) went into the bar in the lobby and had a drink. I dont drink but woooooooooooo they ordered me some 1800 and I was not good! OKKKKKKKK lollll Gerald was like you okay???? lol I said boo I dont drink. We took more photos, talked, and they went to their rooms, and we left. I had a great time.

 

So I say all of that to say. It was meant me for to meet and hang out with him last year. I still thank God because it was for me to meet Pat and be her guest to the private party. That has helped me a lot, knowing I will never see him again. And see I always loved Gerald since I was 19, but I never seen us together like that. You know how fans want to be the wife? I looked at him as a person who was cool, and good to hang out with, and we did just that. Pat could have chosen one of her sisters, but she chose me and I thankful.

 

Ok enough about my boo. So this lady that you see in this photo is my gurl Pat!

 

God Bless

Lacrease

 

 

Check out the way he is looking at me! Ahhhhhhh, that smile!
 His dad and best friend Eddie Levert is sitting beside him!
This was taken last year, at a record shop.
Pat and Gerald Levert at his private party 2005!
 

Gerald and two of his fans!
 

Lacrease and Gerald ( not my favorite photo of us) We look like a old couple that\’s been married for umteen years!
 

Big Joe and Lacrease. Gerald\’s one and only bodyguard! He does not PLAY!
 
Enjoy!

 

Gerald Levert 1966-2006

My boo Gerald Levert passed away.

I\’m so sad.

I still can\’t believe it.

This is one time I want \”death\” to be a rumor. When I was growing up my momma use to always play Barry White and Luther Vandross. I just didn\’t get it. All those  love songs. In 1986 I heard Gerald Levert for the first time. I was in love and going through with my daughter\’s father. That\’s when I needed me some \”therapy\” music. Here it is 2006 and I swear I\’m his biggest fan.

Today when I heard about his death, I was in the break room on my hour lunch when my gurl KiKi page over head and told me to dial ext 150. I called and she said Lacrease are you sitting down? I said WHAT KI-KI, because I can hear in her voice that whateva it was, it was going to be \”spooky\”. So she said again Lacrease are you sitting down? I said what Kiki tell me, she said Gerald Levert had a heart attack and died! I\’m like nooooooo, omgoodness, its a rumor. I wanted to believe so bad that it was, I wanted to wake myself up, even if it meant starting my work day over. I just can\’t believe it. Not Gerald Levert my boo! For some reason I had a feeling that it was true.

I didn\’t want to cry at work. I\’m just a private person, and I wanted to punch out and be by myself. I couldn\’t think. Then to top it off, my co workers was coming up to me asking me was I okay. They were hugging me………and that\’s what took me over. I had one of those cries where you can\’t stop, my eyes were so red. I love my coworkers, because even though I met Gerald several times but didnt know him as a personal friend, they knew how I felt about him and his music, and they really comfort me. They know I can be a tough cookie and keep things inside sometimes. But not today.

When I got home at 7:00 I had 14 people who called. My daughter had their names written out for me. I\’m sitting at my computer watching videos. I HAVE EVERY CD HE HAS EVER MADE! For some reason I can\’t pull them out yet. I was suppose to go with my coworkers tonight for dinner , but I don\’t feel up to it. Just feel like being alone. My boo Gerald Levert is gone home.

 

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