Hey My Yahoo Family!
Ok……….now you know how you go to apply for a new job, and you have to fill out a job application?
Well, I believe that we as women/men should always know what kind of job we want before we even apply. I think that its important to understand the job in which you are applying. You need to know on hand, off rip, what you are looking for. You know what you want, because its engraved in your mind.
So now that you understand about this application. Tell me what you are looking for when you are serious and looking for a Husband or Wife. Tell all your do’s and don’ts.
Part 2 is coming soon. Be prepared to be blessed!
Lacrease
God gave you a gift of 86,400 seconds today. Have you used one to say “thank you”?~~William A. Ward
Inside the mind of cree 
WELL LOOKING FOR MR. RIGHT I LOOK FOR FINANCIAL STABILITY, THE WAY HE TREATS HIS MAMA, RESPECT, INTELLIGENCE, APPEARANCE AND HIS APPROACH…IF YOU BEEP YOUR HORN AT ME EXPECT NOTHING IN RETURN BUT MY DUST…LOL
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I need a GODLY man looks dont matter anymore (I’m thru having babies, I need stability in all areas of his life, he dont have to be rich but have a stable survivable income (and make more than me)and loves children because I have a son, no known mental illness in the immediate family especially with the mother, no baby mommas, no past stalking girlfriends, no porn addictions, must be able to read and write, must have finish school must be able to fix something if not around the house please let it be the car, dont mind getting dirty, need to have goals in life, must be a leader because i think men that are not leaders are weak……..girl my list goes on
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*Send me an email before you post your 2nd part ‘Kay. Everyone else may not know, but, you already know, I am married & I would to respond anyway. But, I will let the others respond first. I don’t want to mess up the thought process. :o)
~ T
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Geeesh that should have read:
“I would ‘like’ to respond anyway.”
I’m sleepy… Why am I up? I don’t know…
~ T
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Well I have been married for almost two years now ,
what made me say yes to my husband, hes a man of God,
has a job , respectful,honest, trust-worthy, he has goals and is working to reach them- he loves kids, He can carry on a convo. that stimalates our minds, He teaches me things and he also learns from me, we support each other in what ever we do.He takes care of home,car when stuff breaks.He’s a great lover, father, and man.
I didnt want a man who beats on his ladys , lives at home has no job no self-respect, No goals,Does drugs was not god fearing, a THUG, Dope boy,DEAD BEAT DADDY,
Lady Singleton
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I think Lady J covered the basics
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>>>Tell me what you are looking for when you are serious and looking for a Husband or Wife. Tell all your do’s and don’ts.<<<
I’ll keep it short… Cre’ you know how I am about relationships. :o)
Here’s one of my “Do’s”:
Pay close attention!
There are dust particles, pebbles, rocks, bricks & stone walls to protect us from certain people & certain situations. Pay close attention to “that voice” don’t stay one more day in a relationship if you “get that feeling something isn’t quite right. I hardly ever used to catch the “hints” or listen to “that voice” (The Lord). I started to ask; “Is it a tattoo on my forehead: Now accepting “immoral men?” I paid attention one day… and vowed to listen from that point on…
Here’s one of my “Do’s”
Prepare yourself. Be a GREAT woman to yourself, that covers what most GREAT men want in a Wife.
I sat at the foot of the Lord and just gave thanks for bringing me out of that miserable place. I stopped asking the Lord why… Then I kept saying; I want to be single and I want to get myself together in all areas of my life. I became a great woman to myself, doing things that I believe pleased the Lord. And, that attracted a great man. Love found us, we did not go looking for it… We were introduced by another couple.
Here’s one of my “Don’ts”:
Don’t Settle!
If it’s not Mr. Right… don’t settle for Mr. I Guess He’ll do. Because, you never know… What “he’ll do.” I agree with the most comments above they are so on point! If those are your limits to what you’ll accept & the qualities in a man… don’t miss a beat when checking that list off. If there’s a box left unchecked… He’s not the one… Period. If you accept “just one” thing later on in the relationship… that “one thing” may lead to something big… or a few big things.
In addition to all of the above & the obvious, I wanted A man who’s spiritually connected (To me there’s a difference in a man that “goes to church” and a man that’s spiritually connected. My first husband “went to church” His Father & Uncles were Pastors one a Bishop his wholeeeeee family “went to church” but that’s whole blog entry for a different day.
Also, I did not want a man with children, young or teenagers. My reason for saying that is to cut out the baby momma drama and most importantly, I wanted us to experience parenthood for the first time with each other.
When my friend told me she wanted me to meet this man, the first question that came out of my mouth was; “Does he have children.” I did not ask anything else. She had already told me where he worked, how long he had been there, where he lived & all that. She put him on a pedestal… She was dating his friend & still til’ this day… I wonder why she didn’t introduce him to her daughter who’s only a couple years younger than I am.
I guess I’ll stop here… :o)
I’m sure ya’ got my point.
We just celebrated our 2nd anniversary, we were married on Good Friday, April 9th, 2004. We’ve been together since 1999.
~ T
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>>>I’ll keep it short…<<<
Aaaahm… It never seems to work out that way when I say that. (LOL)
~ T
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