Tonight in our group the topic was about having Sex before MARRIAGE, and what the Bible says: I wrote: Okay ( persons name), let me challenge your thinking for a minute….. Lets say, you say Lord, I’m holding out on sex until marriage, IM DOING IT YOUR WAY, any other way WOULD BE MY WAY…….THEN… See MoreYou meet a guy, he wants to wait, and you want to wait… Then you both get married, and the sex is not what you think it should be.Would you…… Leave the marriage because of the disappointment?
Would you put it in God’s hands , pray consistently about it, and depend on God to make it 100?
Or you can always…….
Do it (person’s name) way…… and
Test the waters of a potential guy, have good sex while dating.
After seeing it broken down like this, would you change your thinking?
One reason God tells us to honor marriage and keep the marriage bed pure has to do with baggage. We carry baggage into our sexual relationships. Memories from the past, emotional scars and unwanted mental images can defile our thoughts and make the marriage bed less than pure. Certainly God can forgive the past, but that doesn’t mean we’re free from the baggage that can linger in our minds.
Off to bed, sleepy!! Be Blessed