I’m learning to be more submissive. How can I expect to be a wife, when I always want to be in control. No longer will I say…. “well I’ve never been married, and I’m so use to doing things my way”. I’m learning that its okay to be wrong, its okay to have to listen and not talk all the time. Its okay. As a matter of fact, I feel I’m living my best days Spiritually speaking, because the more Im quiet the more I learn. I realize that I don’t always have to say something. The bible says: Proverbs 18:21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they who indulge in it shall eat the fruit of it.