The Seven Deadly Dating Sins
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Style Shortchange: Darla was a perfessional entertainer who knew excatly how to make herself eye-catching; what to wear, how to turn on the glow and how to make an entrance that made tongues dangle. But that all took work, and in her private life she’d rather not bother. When she got around Keith, her boyfriend, Darla preferred to dress down and skip the makeup altogether. Through Keith didn’t know how to mention her appearance without the risk of seeming sexist or superficial, he did feel cheated. Darla was the picture of simple, classy style when they first started going out, but now it was nearly always jeans, sweatshirt and an all-too-familiar bandanna. He concluded that she felt he wasn’t worth dressing up for anymore, and over time his attraction waned.
What Went Wrong: When a woman maintains her physical appearance, its like making love to a man’s eyes. The same things that first attracted Keith to Darla are the things that he still appreciated, yet missed.
Solution: For every date in which you adopt the all-natural and laid-back look, let there be at least a few pulled-together ones. The subliminal message is: “You are worth my looking my best.” Whether he ever says anything or not, you can be sure he notices.
By Ron Elmore
Inside the mind of cree 
Hallelujuah allda sisters need to read this and the men to.how you gonna dress to the 9’s for church and work and to go out with your friends but all is see is that tired house dress that your grandmama wore in 1935!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A brother need some stimuli to keep my eyes straight . I mean listen if we in the house alone and that house dress is my favorite one you know the one that fit thight and is just long enough so that i can see them thick thighs that’s cool but every now and then trow on a nice dress with some 3.5 inch pumps with some clevage and tempt a brother please and have your hair fixed so i can mess it up don’t come to me everyday with it messed cant i have some fun i need to be quiet now i’m getin worked up
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LOL Ya gotta keep doing what you did to get him in order to keep him.
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CRE! YOU GOT A PICTURE OF MY BOYFRIEND SHAQ UP THERE!!!!
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I also agree the Solution. Thats how I try to do my thang I keep it looking good Cre! Good blog!
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Milton lol You are my new boo! You know you are schooling some sistah’s on these dating sins, Wooooooooooooooooweeeee. You are so right, we need to stay looking good for our boo’s. ( talking from a husband wife VIEW) My brother say this all the time, he cant stand a gurl with messy hair. I really really get it now that even if yall dont say boo you look good, yall really do mean it. When we dont hear it we feel as if you dont notice. So that alone can make a woman throw on a quick outfit, She dont feel that she will be complimented any way. But I feel you so much on . I sooooooo get it! Thanks Milt.
Ps. I love how you described her “thick thighs”, I love it!
Lacrease <~~~~~~~~ got thick thighs
Lady J. ~~ Yes that is my baby Shaq. I love this tall thick chocolate hersey bar. lolllll The gurl in the photo is my sisters best friend, they were just here and she want to the hotel they were staying in and got his autograph and took some photos with him. She went 2 days in a row, She love Shaq and I do too. That photo of was taking last year when they were in the Finals. Im waiitng on her to send the other ones from last week.
PS LOL@ LADY J, GURL HE IS BOTH OUR BOYFRIEND. HE IS THE ONLY MAN IN THE NBA THAT GETS MY LOVE LIKE HE DO, SINCE THE PISTONS ARE OUT, IM FOR MIAMI. YEAHHHHHHA
CRE
Where works of the flesh exists, there is NO joy
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Well the question is did he truthly understand HER and all there is about HER in what she do, how she do, why she do. I mean to expect a sista to be dress diped at all times is totally out of the question. Now if we are going out on the town maybe. First understand this shit cost and it don’t come cheap. after living wit a woman for 4 long years i should know. the question is do you do the same for her, could you, would you all is fair in the game of love. I wanna know was he hooked on her appearance or her, the woman or lady, or the fact that she was a nice show toy u do the math.. to each his and her own..Holla at ur Phat Daddy gurl lata
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Hey Phat Daddy! CAn I rub your stomach ( loveeeeeeeeee a man with a stomach, ahhhhhhh)
Anyway……… I think that she was the one who will dress down daily for work and for if she was leaving the house or something. But he was saying, and I soooooooo get it, That he loves to see all of that too. Its just not right for her to get dressed in the mornings looking good, but soon as she she’s him she dress like a granma, I mean who want a man looking RUFF? NO hair cut, facial hair growing wild. what eoman wants that from her man ?
I think that this man wants her to llok goodfor him too. I feel that one. Cause I dont like a ruff looking man either.
cre
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AMEN!!!
Don’t START NOTHING YOU CAN’T FINISH!!!
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