Hey Everybody,
I went to see Rush Hour last night @ 12:01, and again today. Yes, yes, yes it was that good and funny. Better than 1 and 2. And when I say I love me some Rush Hour 1 and 2, beleive it, cause 3 is even better. So if you havent seen it, go out this weekend so that we can set box office records for Lee and Carter.
Im sitting here saying to myself, let me go and blog cause I am a thinker, and when I think a lot I need to write it down sometimes, but everytime I go to write them down, my mind goes blank. I often think about how much power I have over situations in my life. Someone may call me and want to talk about marriage, or relationships, and I know at that same moment I have the power to chose to either speak life or death into that persons situation. Just today my niece called me and was telling me about how some kids that had to move in with them was going in the refrigarator eating the food up, and standing on the couch and doing things that she dont do even in her own house. I told her that her presentation of what shouldnt be happening in the house would be how they would take it. If she have an attitude, with her face all bald up and disfigured and say, Look, dont be eating up all our food, and dont be jumping on the couch tearing it up either. They would never respect what she said, even though it is true. The whole focus would shift to how she said it and the attitude she had behind it. Instead I told her to go to them, giving eye contact, talking in a very nice humble voice and say, hey, we have to ask for permission to eat food in this house, we dont just go in the fridge and get what we want. And also we dont jump on our couch because we are not allowed too. I told her that they would probaly be mad, ( who cares) because they cant do what they were doing in the past anymore, but they would think about you everytime they went to the fridge, and when they sit on that couch. I know the pressure of being 15-16 and having to be in charge of kids younger than you, they dont want to listen or act right. Its all about presentation, how it comes out, body language and facial expressions. A lot of people dont like to hear the truth, but oh well.
I had to learn that my attitude will get me no where. I use to have a terriable attitude growing up, always trying to seperate my 2 bestfriends, causing them to argu and debate. I was a messy gurl growing up. If I couldnt come outside, I would spend my day trying to convince my friend that she shouldnt be out either. How can you have fun if your best friend is not with you? Selfish thinking!! UGH! LOL Now, I never walk around with an attitude, that is just so childish to me. I use to attract people who were just like me, but as soon as I started building a relationship with God, he began showing me that I didnt have to be that way, so I changed. But then what about those people that were in my life that were still being the same way? I had to work twice as hard at changing, because it was still in my system, but only to Amen what they did, rather than do it myself. So, for my own personal growth, I had to pray and ask God to take me out of those friendships. It took almost 2 years, and now they are every once in a while see each other friends, maybe like 2 times a year. So, Im happy, I can be me…….Lacrease. And now with all my new friends, they are just like me………happy, loving, caring, sharing, and always smiling. Do I get upset sometimes and look ugly in the face? Heck ke yeah. Come through my 20 items or less lane, with 40 items, look at my face and then tell me how Im feeling? LOL ROFL. Im closing for now, talk to you all lata.
Thatgurl…HE…callCree
