Tired of the question……..When

 I remember like yesterday the years of being in my 20\’s. When this photo was taken I had just gotten over \”the love \” of my life…….my daughter\’s dad. It was one of the hardest things I ever had to do……… but I did it. I had several boyfriends after that. One killed himself, one in jail for killing, burning and tossing his gurlfriends body into the trunk of her own car ( he broke up with me to be with her),another got married.
 
I look back at my life and ask God did you save me from all of this? I know I loved these men, but I noticed that everything that happened to them was after me. Sometimes you asked God \”when\” and \”why\” and if he would talk face to face to me, his story of protecting me would match up with the ending of why I didn\’t make it with any one of these men. He had other plans for them, as well as he did for me.
 
So my question to you 360 Family? Are you single? And if so do you get tired, and frustrated by people asking you when are you getting married? Asking why you don\’t have a boyfriend/gurlfriend? How do you respond to them. Please help me.
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7 thoughts on “Tired of the question……..When

  1. Are you single? Yup

    And if so do you get tired, and frustrated by people asking you when are you getting married? Yup

    Asking why you don’t have a boyfriend/gurlfriend? Yup

    How do you respond to them. I just tell them it aint that easy LOL!

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  2. I am single! Actually, I am divorced. It is not easy being single but I tell people I did it my way before, now I am waiting on God to do it HIS way. The wait is worth it because I know God don’t make mistakes and when He sends my BOAZ, it is on, do you hear me girl???? LOL! I love the Lord because He has been patient with a sis like me. I could write a book on my many mistakes, but I am so grateful to be saved, sanctified, and filled with the precious Holy Ghost and I am waiting on my king this time!!!! Be blessed!

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  3. i can’t answer those questions because i’m not really at an age to be pressured to get married. but i definitely know what you mean when u say “God saved u from those men…” i’ve always had boyfriends. some i thought i’d be with forever. let’s see…one got married at 19 and had four kids before he turned 24;actually, they all have kids; one went to jail for armed robbery (prolly still locked up); the same armed robbery dude has two kids by two sister (yeah…ew); one is a wannabe king pin…

    growing up in the projects, there weren’t many options for me. most of the people i knew growing up are stuck…like i should’ve been. i was more likely to become a single mother of 5 kids, living on welfare, with no goals and no future. i’m 23 with no children, pay my own bills, and still working on finishing school my future. i know God was keeping an eye on me. i thank God everyday for it.

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  4. Girl I FEEL you 175% on this one. I am single, and by all rights it is probably a great thing considering the men that I have dated. And I think that if I had kids everyone would be perfectly fine with my being single. Strange, huh? But at 26 (27 on Saturday) and having no kids… In my family, this is as close to sin as possible. I have 6 siblings. My mother has 7 siblings, and each of her siblings have an equally large family. The point of the story is that every last one of my cousins (at least 50) have children – men, women, older cousins, younger cousins. Hell, there are even two freaking lesbians and they both have KIDS!!

    So with that rant (posing as background information) let me answer your questions:

    Are you single? – Yes

    And if so do you get tired, and frustrated by people asking you when are you getting married? – Yes

    Asking why you don’t have a boyfriend/gurlfriend? – Yes

    How do you respond to them?

    Remind them of a few of the ridiculous situations that I’ve encountered with the most recents Beau and ask them if they think that I should marry them.

    (okay – I acknowlegde the fact that I wrote way too much on your blog….. touchy subject)

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  5. Iam single and i kind of get lonly but oh well! God saves the best for last , and i guess that iam last . People asks me that all of the time, why are u single, are you going to get married again. It isn’t nothing wrong with me but i just don’t have time for fakers. And GOD will put someone in my life , when the time is right.

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  6. GIRL YOU STILL LOOK THE SAME DANE JUST DIFF HAIR STYLES YOU ARE SOO BEAUTIFUL ALL OF YOU I HATE WHEN PPL SAY MY FACE IS CUTE BUT WHAT ABOUT ALL OF ME SO I TELL PPLS THE TRUTH YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL LACREASE

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