Author: lacrease

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When “No” Is God’s Protection, Not Rejection

Too many of us have been conditioned to flinch at the word No. It echoes like failure, feels like rejection, and lodges deep in the heart as if we weren’t good enough, worthy enough, or ready enough. But the truth is—No doesn’t have to be the end of our dreams.

Sometimes that “No” is divine redirection. It’s God whispering, “That’s not what I have for you.” And if we’re honest, some of the things we begged for in the past—jobs, relationships, opportunities—would’ve pulled us away from our purpose had we received them. Thank God for the doors that didn’t open.

But here’s where it gets real: hearing No too often can make us stop trying. We stop asking. We stop dreaming. And eventually, we settle. Not because our dreams weren’t valid, but because we let fear of rejection speak louder than the fire God placed in our hearts.

Saying “keep going” after a No doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t sting. It means trusting that even disappointment can be holy. It means reminding ourselves: our worth isn’t tied to someone else’s approval. And every No we face is a setup for the right Yes.

So dream anyway. Ask anyway. Show up anyway. When No shows up at your door, don’t pack up and walk away. Stand firm. Trust God. And know that sometimes, the No isn’t punishment—it’s protection. It’s purpose. It’s a better Yes in the making.

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“Dear Tyler Perry: A Letter from a Front Row Fan”

I’ve loved your work for decades. When your plays came to town, I was always right there in the front row—laughing, crying, praising God, and feeling every word like it was written for my life. You reminded us that healing, forgiveness, and faith could walk hand in hand with good storytelling. That’s the Tyler I connected with—the one who made space for Jesus, redemption, and accountability in every production.

So watching you change… it hasn’t been easy.

I know you’ve shared some of the pain and trauma you carry. I’ve read how your mother’s passing affected you, how you’ve turned to edibles and coping mechanisms to manage that grief. I understand that healing isn’t linear. But as someone who’s watched you grow older in the public eye, I can’t help but feel like your art isn’t growing with you.

Your recent sitcoms—filled with vulgarity, excessive sexual content, and even male-on-male scenes that don’t seem rooted in any deeper message—feel disconnected from the man I once saw as a vessel for truth and restoration. It’s not about judging the characters or the choices—they exist in real life too—it’s about the intention behind the scenes. Once, your work held up a mirror to the soul. Now, it feels more like a show for shock.

Some will say you’ve evolved. But from where I sit, it doesn’t look like growth. It looks like unresolved pain.

You once led with purpose. Now, it feels like you’re walking with the crowd. I never expected perfection from you—but I did expect alignment with the message you built your legacy on. The Tyler who taught us how to forgive our fathers, how to get out of bad relationships, how to stand in the name of God—that Tyler seems distant.

And maybe… maybe this letter isn’t about disappointment. Maybe it’s about mourning. Mourning the loss of an artist who once made so many of us feel seen and understood in ways Hollywood never could.

I still care. I still respect your work ethic. But as a supporter who believed in the why behind your storytelling, I hope you come back to center.

Love always, A front-row sister who still believes in your light.

Subscribe to my YouTube channel coming back in September.

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Redemption or Repeat? My Thoughts on Diddy, Accountability, and Second Chances

There’s something unsettling about watching people in power treat others like they don’t matter—especially when it comes to women. Recently, I’ve been reflecting on Sean “Diddy” Combs and everything that’s come to light. As someone who believes deeply in respect, growth, and accountability, I can’t stay silent.

I don’t agree with how he treated Cassie—and that’s just scratching the surface. The disrespect he shows toward people, period, is alarming. If a man ever treated his daughters the way he’s treated other women, I believe he’d be outraged. So why do we excuse it when he’s the one inflicting that pain?

The legal system is now involved, and from what I’ve read, Diddy’s been convicted of serious charges. Even so, it’s likely he won’t serve as much time as he could have. Some might call that grace. Some might call it a second chance.

But here’s the thing: what does a second chance even mean if you don’t think you did anything wrong? If there’s no remorse, no change of heart—what are we really giving a second chance to? I fear that if he walks free with the same mindset, he’ll become more cautious, more strategic, more dangerous. He’ll be smarter about how he gets away with it, not better as a person.

As a woman of faith, I believe God allows space for transformation. But it requires honesty. Accountability. Humility. Without those, second chances can just become opportunities to repeat history—only more carefully hidden.

I’m sharing this not to attack, but to speak truth. To stand with women like Cassie. To say that power and fame shouldn’t shield anyone from the consequences of their choices. And to remind us all that real change comes from within.

Until we value character more than celebrity, we’ll keep facing the same painful lessons.

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I Miss Blogging

Hey Family,

I’ve been away for a while, and it’s time I share something deeply personal with you. I recently experienced a stroke—but by the grace of God, I came out of it physically and mentally just as I went in. That in itself is a testimony I can’t keep to myself. My Love for God- Family and friends- Learning Life Lessons- Sisterhood- Inspiration- Encouraging- Story Time- City Driving- My Love for Teenagers Advice- Showing how I Make Candles, will also be a part of videos on my channel.

This September, I’ll be sharing my full story on my YouTube channel Creasygurl. It’ll be raw, real, and straight from the heart. In the meantime, I’ll be easing back into blogging—writing my way through this journey and reconnecting with all of you who have supported me for so long.

If you haven’t already, I’d love for you to subscribe to my channel, Creasygurl, and be a part of this next chapter with me. I’ve got so much to say, and I truly believe someone out there needs to hear it.

https://youtube.com/@creasygurl?si=P8MGJA9u8PY01W12

Lacrease

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My most influential teacher? Why?

Mrs. Shadinski

She was my third grade teacher. She was kinda mean. But one thing for sure she didn’t play and meant BUSINESS when it came to multiplication.

Looking back she would scream but I loved her. I was learning because she wanted me to win. I felt it. She wanted all of us to win. That’s when I bucked down and learned it. Even though math is not my strongest subject, I still know my MULTIPLICATION.

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Amazing Easter Baskets Gifts

As an Amazon Affiliate, I have put together a list of goodies for your family, friends, and loved ones.

Having worked in retail for 15 years, I know what people love. I would often find myself wandering down the seasonal aisle, absolutely thrilled by all the Easter basket goodies. There’s nothing quite like discovering the cutest basket and filling it with treasures I knew my daughter, mom, and friends would adore.

Whether it’s for your kids, mom, or friends, there’s something magical about receiving a basket filled with your favorite candies and small, personal gifts—things you’d happily buy for yourself anyway!

Take a look at my list below, click on the links, and start building the perfect Easter basket. Let’s make this season extra special!

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Perfect for Teenagers.

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Hallmark 8″x10″ Easter Canvas Tote Bag (Bunny Ears) for Easter Baskets, Egg Hunts, Spring Birthdays and More

  • Ivory fabric bag features a cute bunny face and is finished with two rainbow bunny ear handles for easy over-the-shoulder carrying.
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  • Easter-Themed Foil-Wrapped Candy – A festive treat with smooth white chocolate and crispy cookie bits, wrapped in colorful foil
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Did Tyler Perry Owe Monique an Apology? Analyzing the Fallout

If it were up to me, I would want everyone to get along. I think this situation with Tyler Perry and Monique has gone on long enough. I can tell that, in her mind, Monique felt she found the perfect time to bring her case up again about being blacklisted in the industry. I’m starting to think her feelings are hurt. I believe she looked at Tyler in a different light than he realized. For him not to give her the apology she feels she deserves, she just won’t let this go.

From my understanding of the fallout, Monique made Precious with Lee. They finished the movie, and it was supposed to go straight to DVD—not Netflix, not Prime, and not to theaters, but straight to DVD. She agreed to $50,000. The movie was done and ready to be released. Then, Lee showed the movie to Oprah, who loved it and shared it with Tyler, who also loved it. I’m assuming that Lee, Oprah, and Tyler decided in good faith to support the movie and push it so everyone could benefit. Monique would get an Oscar for her performance, more roles, and lots of money. Lee would gain recognition for his work, and everyone involved would see significant advantages.

I’m guessing that after seeing the movie and deciding to promote it, they approached Monique to ask her to do press, which meant supporting the movie through interviews and events. However, what I don’t understand is that, since this movie was originally going straight to DVD, Monique was already done with the commitments she had agreed to. If they now wanted the movie to go straight to theaters, they should have gone back and renegotiated her contract. Everybody knows that if Tyler Perry and Oprah put their names on a project, its success will skyrocket!

I’m sure Monique went to Lee to ask for more money to cover travel expenses and promotional activities, but he said no, despite knowing how profitable the movie could become. That’s a significant issue. Here’s where I start raising my eyebrows: Was Monique pressured by Tyler to do press without being informed of what she was originally paid to do? Did Tyler know her financial arrangement and still expect her to do the press for free? Or did he understand her hesitation, respecting her decision not to spend her own money, and feel that Lee should have covered her expenses? Perhaps he told her to forget about the money and focus on the potential benefits of earning an Oscar. But Tyler Perry, as a billionaire, can’t reasonably expect someone to do something for free under those circumstances. No ma’am.

Bottom line, Monique feelings are hurt. Maybe Tyler should just give her an apology.

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What activities do you lose yourself in?

Playing Spades, Clue game. Writing and YouTube videos

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What Experiences in life helped me to grow the most?

I used to want to be a lawyer. I loved to debate, and it was fun arguing for hours. However, I would get mad and soon realize that I felt my way was the only way. It’s not.

Everyone is different. We all have different personalities and experiences. We can’t all come to the same conclusion; it’s impossible. Once I learned that, it became easier to understand people. My personal experiences made my story true.

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What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

My Bible

Pen and paper

A watch

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