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Behind the Scenes~ Your child at school.. *Parents must read* Crees Blog Entry

hpqscan0001Behind the Scenes~ Your Kids at School

 

When Neisha was growing up… it use to irritate me so bad the NUMBER OF TIMES I had to tell her that when she leaves from spending the night out, to make sure she pack up all her clothes and personal things. She would ALWAYS come home without SOMETHING. For the life of me, I couldn’t understand why she wasn’t “getting it” after the first 10 times of me yelling.

 

 

What I realized is THAT….. Its a must YOU TELL your KIDS THE SAME THING OVER, AND OVER, AND OVER, AND OVER, AND OVER, AND OVER until you are BLUE in the face. Kids just don’t get it hearing it once. I GET THAT NOW. It’s okay….it really is.

 

 

I have to tell the same kids over and over and over… “go to your class” “Stop playing in the hall”… “leave that gurl alone” “pick up your mess”. “pull your pants up”, “stop cussing”, “throw your tray away”, “stop playing so much”. And at one point I said God.. why do I have to tell the same kids the same thing over and over and over again? He said to me…. how many times do I STILL have to tell you….. to slow down, be patient, take your time, listen, make sure the door is locked, get gas before you go to work, make sure you have your keys, put your license back in your wallet before you lose it, turn your head lights off, make sure the stove is off before leaving the house. I can go on and on. I just smiled when I heard all these things that I CONSTANTLY need to be told to do.

 

 

The BIG PICTURE is this….. No matter how tired you get of telling your kids something over and over and over again…. understand you just may have too. We are people and its in us to be told something OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Also know there maybe something’s, that you’re only willing to tell your child only once. One thing Neisha knew I wasn’t going to repeat myself was, when, I told her to come here. She always came right away, because she knew that was something I didn’t want to tell her twice about. I can hear you saying to your kids “clean up your room” wash your plate out when you finish eating, pickup your clothes behind you, wash your hands, take this garbage out, do your homework, do your chores, be in by curfew. I realized that WE’RE ALL WIRED UP to be told over, and over, and over, and over again to do the thing we know to do.

 

 

Guess what? The same things you’re telling your kids at home …. when they come to school the next day…. ITS MY TURN. #idontmindatall

Where works of the flesh exists, there is NO joy
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#VIRGO #VIRGOS VIRGOS!!!!! Cree’s Blog Entry!!!

blurrymeI use to be deep into signs in my 20’s, these days every now and then I’ll find myself reading something on line about Virgos. I find the things that people say about us to be so true….some folks need to #tryagain.

I found some interesting post on line *Virgo Woman by GaneshaSpeaks.com , I want to share them and respond. My comments are about me, but you can learn a lot about yourself or someone you know or date.

The Virgo women’s greatest assets are their intelligence, analytical minds and excellent memory. They are logical thinkers who would take any into account every detail before arriving at a decision. Therefore, they are good at settling disputes and make good business partners, analysts and strategists. I do remember a lot, but I take in so much from myself and others, that I don’t believe I remember a lot. But maybe its true for things I WANT TO REMEMBER. LOL Yes, I think about everything!!! That’s why I’m a great planner. I can plan something, and think of the smallest detail in making it happen. When I do my Feeding the Homeless projects, Sistergurls, Raisingurls, out of town trips, its planned so well, that when its over, it feels to ME…… that it NEVER HAPPENED. I love that about myself. I do lots of research, calling folks over the phone, talking in person, coming to a CLEAR UNDERSTANDING, making sure folks understand what I want, and when I want it. I write down everything and don’t miss a beat. LOL This is funny.

They do have a softer side to their personalities. Although they may appear as strong-minded individuals, there are emotional and need to be well taken care of. They have a habit over becoming overcritical but don’t hold that against them because they have the same attitude towards themselves. I agree!!!! My personality is VERY STRONG. I know it comes from my dad, because all of us *3 siblings* are too. We weren’t  allowed to fight at all … period growing up, so our only defense was to argue and debate it out. We are SOME POWERHOUSES!!! One day I’m going to record one of our debates, its so funny. We GO AT IT. We never get personal, we always stay on the subject at hand. LOL That’s a site to see!!!! Yes, I’m very emotional. When it comes to people being mistreated, homeless, hungry, bullied, children, abused….. I am THE PERSON WHO STANDS UP FOR THESE FOLKS!!! I’m a very popular person everywhere I go, BUT …. don’t expect for me to sit a the table with the RICH AND POWERFUL…. Ill be the one making phone calls to get people shelter, food, and assistance. THENNNNN I’ll go mingle. LOL

These women don’t get influenced easily as they wary of exposing their emotional vulnerability and possibility of getting hurt. Besides, one has to match their high standards to impress the perfection-seeking Virgo women. Hence, patience is the key if you want make a lasting impression on a Virgo woman’s mind. Yep, all day long!!!! I’m not geeked on how much money you have or make, your car, your home, your position at work…. I’m geeked on how you treat your parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, COWORKERS, and how well you communicate and greet others as soon as you make contact. Cause see God has treasures stored up for LaCrease in HEAVEN, ….that’s waiting for me. So, in order to impress me…. ON EARTH…… you have to care about PEOPLE. I cant stand or deal with ANY DRAMA…… he has to know what HE can do……. AND KEEP IT MOVING… my train * mind* is always moving!!!

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Virgos will forgive more than once if they love you. But don’t think they won’t get fed up and leave you high and dry. Virgos has a DISS BUTTON… .that’s outta this world!!!! It may take a moment to push it… but TRUST AND BELIEVE… its there!!!

Virgos won’t like people with controlling personalities, and like Scorpio, they NEVER change to suit anyone! I know when to fall back, and when to speak up. I cant deal with people who control with their POWER. #notimpressed

Virgos love the smell of freshness aromas,candles,fresh laundry,perfume,and cologne. YESSS. I LOVE TO SMELL A MAN’S NECK 🙂

Virgo ladies do not date based on looks or money. So it is essential that you have a great sense of humor and a decent outlook on life. I’M silly and love to laugh. I love it.

I am very shy when I meet a guy. VERY… I like to listen and pay attention to everything. People always come to WRONG conclusions about me/us when they think they know us, but have NO IDEA.

For example. I live downtown, and in my apartment complex we have 24 hour security… one of the guys ask me to come here so that he can say something to me. He said… “I know you like me”… and since me and him are cool. It kinda shocked me. So instead of me making all of these facial expressions that would clearly SHUT HIM DOWN VIRGO STYLE… I asked him…. tell me… how did you come to that conclusion? He said the way you look at me when you come in the building, the way you talk to me, the way you smile at me, you have to always say something to me. He said the other day you licked your tongue out at me…. he said I noticed that too. I let him talk for about 10 minutes.

Then it was MY turn….

I said first of all boo * with a smile as always*….. I speak to EVERYONE who makes eye contact with me. I said noticed… when I talk to you as I enter the building….. I’m WALKING to the elevator and talking.

#2 I’m 15 years older than you

#3 I’m friendly to everyone.

#4 I call birds, dogs, cats, men, women………. BOO. Its not a personal word I use for people who I LIKE.

#5 When I licked my tongue out at you that day * God is my witness*, I was praying at the same time saying “God… I cant stand him”!!

We both laughed on that last one. It was truly what I was thinking and praying about. Because by him thinking I “liked” him, I was praying to God how much I cant stand him!!! HE always wants to know what I’m cooking, what I’m doing for the day when I leave the building, what’s in MY BAG…. what do I have on as far as perfume, when I’m coming back. UGH!!! Every time I leave the building he has to ask me a personal question and we HATE for people to be in our business too much. I guess he was calling himself “showing interest” in me. LOL LOL

So, now that we had that talk, we’re good friends. I understand him more, and he knows.. BOO BOO * IN MY KEKE WYATT SILLY VOICE*.. IM JUST BEING FRIENDLY. And all we talk about is his fiance and his new baby on the way. See what talking can do and NOT ASSUMING NO ONE WANTS TO MARRY YOU AND BE YOUR WIFE? * SUB*

My name is La’Crease Walker, and this VIRGO approve this message.

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Men….Stop that!

shann and daughtersSo, today I’m back on track.

Me and HE, have decided to be friends. He’s so funny and so cool. I love a man who has plenty of conversation. Sexy, handsome, thick, friendly, love helping people, love to laugh and talk. Um. So, with that said….. no phone calls to him, only talks in person when he’s here. I’m good with it. I learned the less you talk to a man and just listen, he loves that. I just hate that when men see me as a listener, that they think my mentality is weak. But then as soon as they get to know me… they say I want all the POWER, control, want everyone to see things my way, STRONG MINDED, bossy, when I make up my mind on something… ITS A DONE DEAL.  So men stop thinking just because a woman listens to you that she is SUBMISSIVE AND WEAK. Stop that. Because when she shows you her other side, you will look at her differently….good or bad. I’m a sweet person, I HATE DRAMA AND GOSSIP… but I love to laugh, talk, take rides, city trips, go near water and just chill. In the meantime…. my book is calling.

I was reading an article that Oprah had about writer’s block. I found it very interesting. I was thinking something was wrong with me. I find that I can really write when someone has made me mad….. that’s strange. It also talks about NOT talking about what you’re writing because after you’ve said it, the desire to write is gone. LOL So true that made me laugh. I like to talk out loud when I’m alone, and after all my frustrations are out, I can’t write a thing on it. Wow.. funny.

*My sister and nieces toes*

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As I sat on the couch *continue* Cree’s Blog

I started realizing that I spend too much time on the lives of other people. And let me say this………… THESE ARE ALL GOOD PEOPLE. But its about ME now. I’m the one moving to Atlanta, about to live my dreams out. I shouldn’t be trying to fit in time for other people…. I’ve done that for many years now.

As I sat on the couch, and laid in bed for 3 weeks, I started seeing many things. Things that if I was still working I would have looked over ……easily. Things about people that bother me. I have some blame in this too. I allowed people to treat me a certain way…. not because I don’t care…… but its because of FEAR of me going back to ME…. the old ME. The selfish ME. The don’t give a F*** ME. The nonchalant ME… The “WHATEVA…ME. The “If I don’t see ya…. then I don’t LOVE ya”…ME. I can’t seem to find a medium. I’m either turned OFF by someone, or TURN ON. Turned off meaning…we could be in the same room for hours, I’ll speak, but after that I will never allow my eyes to lay eyes your way again. TURNED ON meaning…… I can tell you how much I appreciate you, give you my honest opinion about something, show you love in my own special way.

I just don’t know how to find that balance. Right now in my life… I’m TURNED OFF BY A LOT OF PEOPLE. In these last weeks, people have showed me their ass time and time again… day after day. Everyday I pray and said Lord….. please. please. please. please, please don’t let me go back to my old attitude. I JUST WANNA SCREAM…. LET ME BE ME!!!!! I don’t want to be selfish with my self …. SECRETIVE AND NONTRANSPARENT. I just need to find that balance, where I say… a little of YOU in my life… and little of YOU in my life… a little of YOU in my life… AND A LOT OF LACREASE … IN MY LIFE LOL.

I hate being this way………. I HATE IT… BUT I’VE GOT TO DO IT… I HAVE TOO..

I’m not going talk about this any deeper…. I’m just doing what I have to do…. That’s all.

Cree

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Today was a GREAT DAY….Crees Blog Entry

Today was a GREAT DAY. Me and my Best Friend finally found a day to spend together. We both work and so today was the day that we went to dinner and a movie.

I LOVE my Best Friend because she is so WISE. GOODNESS, I promise, we always end up on the same page in our lives. And even though she is married, she still finds time to spend with me. I love how she talks about God, and how she prays and we’ll sit and watch it come to pass. She says this about me, so imagine us together. POWER HOUSES!!! LOL Have you ever had a friend that listens to you, and helps you, and prays for you, and is the same person everyday? We’ve been friends for over 20 years. WE ARE BLESSED!!!!!

She’s a woman who loves her HUSBAND so dearly, she teaches me some things about marriage, and I don’t even have a boyfriend. LOL But I love to listen to her, because she gives good advice, and she TELLS ME WHEN IM WRONG. And as sweet as I am…… I’m a tough cookie, who loves to act like “my feelings hurt” and LOVES TO PLAY DUMB. LOL She doesn’t go for that. She knows me well and see through me. LOL LOL I know I’m a hand full, and its going to take a TOUGH MAN TO DEAL WITH ME!!! A VERY TOUGH TOUGH TOUGH ONE * IN LOVE* TO HANDLE CREE. LOL I LOVE MY BFF CHARLENE.

I’m just sitting here at the computer reading emails that made me smile. Things I had forgotten. Things I want/gonna do. Its going to happen for me soon, I can’t wait to get started. Let me not go too deep. Anyway….. I had a wonderful time today with Char, we talk and text all day, but its nothing like being face to face sharing God, and sharing the things that matter in our lives.

Be Blessed

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Friends

Thank you Lord for this day!! I know Lord, I started my day at work, quiet and not able to Minister to anyone. I was down in my Spirit and kept quiet all day. But something did go on that was funny to me.

 

 This older lady came through my line, she sense that I was down too. She was my last customer.  I turned my light off at my register to go to the rest room, when people kept lining up. I must have said… I’m closed…. I’m closed Sir….. I’m closed Maam….. about 7 times. The lady looked at me with this smile on her face. I said to her, you know………. no matter how many teeth I show while I’m smiling to the customers as I’m telling them I’m closed its still not enough. They always get mad at me. She said, you know I’m an Usher at Church, and when we tell people that a certain section is blocked off, they get an attitude. I said ummmm, one day I did question why we couldn’t sit in a certain section at my Church, and I guess the Ushers went back and told our Bishop that we give them a hard time. And when Bishop bought it up at the end of service one time, I was instantly convicted, because I was one  of them. LOL She said, Oh yeah what Church do you belong too? I said Second Ebenezer~ Bishop Vann. She said that’s where I Usher at!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL We laughed sooooooooooooooooooooo loud. We were cracking up!!! Wow, see that? LOL I Thank God for my friendliness, because I meet ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE……. DAILY!!!! What a small Testimony. God will show you who you are!

 

 

The photo above is my CRAZY cousin MONICA. I love her to pieces! We went to our family reunion in Atlanta Georgia 17 or 18 years ago. We loved it so much, we came back to Detroit and planned a trip back just to get away.  She had twins a boy and gurl, she left her kids here, and packed her personal belongings and went there with nothing. She was determined to find a better life for her and her kids. She stayed in GA, and we came back home. I kept saying to myself I really want to see her pull this off. Within a week, she found a place and a job. She loves it there. She said she will never in her life come back here to live. I am soooooooo jealous. In a good way tho. I cant wait to see her when Im in Atlanta next week. This gurl is the funniest person you ever want to meet. OMG when we are together we argue, make up and laugh!!! She’s 43 and a VIRGO just like me. LOL The debates we use to have, baaaaaaaaaaby you would have your finger on 911,  wondering if you should call the people on us. LOL We would make up and laugh. She always remind me about the time we had it out in Atlanta. I’ll never forget that!!! My cousin is crazy!!! I crack up when she tell me the story of her seeing Tyler Perry outside of a restaurant talking on his cell phone. LOL Whew, funny story!!! Only MONICA! LOL SMH!

 

 A good friend of mines emailed me tonight and this was his question to me:

  

Now This Have Nothing To Do With Me I trying to school My Baby Sister and Male Cousin. If You Meet Somebody of the Opposite Sex and Y’all exchange Numbers via The Mall, Bar, Club, Or Church and when y’all talk on the phone and they tell you off rip that they not looking for a relationship. Doesn’t that mean they are looking for a Friend With Benefits AKA a Sex Partner? Correct Me If I’m Wrong.

 

 He asked the right person because this is what I have to say about it. If you meet someone and they tell you off rip that they are not looking for a relationship …… NO, that doesn’t mean that they want to have Sex. Everyone doesn’t have Sex on their minds just because they desire a friendship of the opposite sex. Friendships comes in many different seasons. Spiritual, dinner dates, good conversation, advice, lessons. It could mean that you want that person to talk with. Why do people always have to read more into something when it’s not there? That pisses me off to NO END!!! Just last week, I was walking to the time clock when my coworkers dad, hemed me up ( blocked me between a cart) in the toys department and touched me below. Now I know you’re saying, danggggg what did she do to deserve that? That comes from me being nice, and trying to say NO, in a nice way. So when I NUTTED up on him for doing that, he had this stupid look on his face. I ask myself all the time, what kinda vibes do I send people for them to do/ and treat me the way they do? Then when I cut them off ( don’t talk to them anymore), or blink out on them, they say I’m crazy!! I can touch on this subject all day. I live it! If somebody say they love you as a brother/sister/friend TAKE THAT FOR FACE VALUE!!!

 

 

I’m almost ready for my trip to Atlanta! I’m so slow in packing. When I get married my husband is really gonna be on me for that. LOL Im last minute sometimes, I think better for some reason. I’m good under pressure, so good!!! I have the weather programmed on my computer for Buckhead, and its going to be 95-98 degrees when we touch down. Oh Lawddddddd, that’s too much for me. There can’t be any issues with the air in our rental truck. Whew, we don’t have it that hot here in Detroit at all. I told Tameka Raymond, that I was going to visit her Boutique. I like her. She takes a lot from the media, but she’s doing her thang, and I’m proud of her for hanging in there for everything that she’s been through.

 

Well, Im closing for now. Oh, yeah. I have already started my Ministry!!! Yea. Wont say much for now, but its going to be FIYAH!!! PRAISE GOD!

 

Cree

 

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