Why come yesterday while at work, I was coming out of the bathroom, when all of a sudden this guy that I use to talk to came out of no where  and started telling me that he just bought a house.in one of the best neighborhoods, a brand new truck, got a better job paying $3,000 more a year, and all this other stuff. Then before I can say anything he says: Well ok bye…… I gotta go…… see ya later.

 So naturally Im standing there looking like dayummmmmmm…………where all that come from? I aint seent ( slang) you in Lawd knows how long. And here you come dropping all this in my lap………..and Im not even at home… Im at work. Like Im suppose to stop, drop and roll up at your “new” house. Naw…..um um………..

Now Im thinking to myself ok, does he want to see if Im going to call him later when I get home? Cause I guess you know…………..he dont know me like that!

We never did anything, he cant seem to figure out why,even though he looks good Lawdddddd!!!!!!!! Whew, he is tall about 6’7 dark like I like em, thick with a stomach made just for rubbing and taking naps on, he makes good money, he’s a business man, he comes from a good family. He drives the best! No kids, and live alone!

But its just something about him that I wasnt feeling.

He was the type of man that figure well if you dont want me, then you must feel intimidated by my success. But it soooooooooo wasnt that. My thang is this, stop telling me what you got and let me see for myself. Because my point is this: What good will all that do for me, if you have 4-5 women running in and out of your life. If I was #1 and I knew it because of your actions and how you made me feel, then sure we can kick it like that. But when you have to tell me everything you got, instead of going with the flow of things, then to me  you hiding something else.

I have been with men who didnt tell me nothing or brag about himself. When he picked me up he was driving the nicest car, when I went to his house it was laid out, when I went to visit his family they had it going on. I hate when a man feel that he has to “tell” me what he has. Just let a sistah see for herself what chu working with. She’ll love you for it.

Cre promise

 

• Where was she at
• What she have on
• What did she say
• Who was she with
• What time was this
• What kinda car she have
• What was she doing
• Who was she talking too\’
• Did anybody say anything to her?
• Was she acting funny?
• Was she with her kids (noticed I already asked this question but in a different way)

Hey!

Mannnnnnnn I miss you guys! What is going on? My computer is finally up and running. My modem blew out, and this computer is just one year old. So I had to run up and down the stairs to use my other computer, which is old and only has aol 7.0. So just imagine how it was trying to do things. I tried not to get too far behind with my emails, but I just couldnt keep up with yahoo 360. I wanted a new page, and new photos, and it just wasnt happening. Plus I think God was trying to tell me something any way. I will sit at this computer on my off days, and when I get home from work with no discipline at all. But you know what? Thats gonna change! And thats on everythang. Im not going to log on until my house work is done. ( dogone shame) lol.

I wanted to go back and read some of you guys blogs, but whew chile I dont think I can do it. I know my nosey self will be on here all night and all day trying to comment. So I decided to start at Monday\’s blog.

To all my peeps who have been sending me shout outs and where ya ats, your gurl is back in the house!

Well, let me do a little catching up and I will be back lata.

Lacrease

 

Ok, So to the 4 people that said yes to my poll. Im assuming a few are women.

( this is before sex is even  mentioned) WOULD YOU ASK A GUY TO CUT YOUR GRASS THAT YOU JUST MET? AND IF THE ANSWER IS NO, WHY? SINCE YOU WOULD LET HIM HAVE YOUR BODY.

Hey Fam,

I have a VERY VERY IMPORTANT  question for you okay?  (smiling)

THERE IS ALSO A PART 2, SO CHECK BACK

 

Hey Fam!

Here I am inside my hotel, having a ball in the Lord, do yall hear me? This morning I got up early round bout 8ish got dressed and went to see my gurl Joyce Meyers! I love this woman. I had a glorious time. She knows that she can teach. She teaches in examples of her life which makes in real and reachable. How can you teach/preach if you havent been though nothing? God is calling for those people who have been through something to preach/teach others. Your strengh is in your experiences. There are people who dont want to go through nothing!!!!!! I dont want to be like that. Because how can you minister if you dont have a testimony?????? Good question aint it?

I am in my 2nd day and I have 2 more left. I took some time out to be with my Lord. I dont know anyone here, its just me and him. How blessed I feel to be in his presence. He met me here. Im going to make this a twice a year thing. This is something new, Ive never, ever ever did anything like this before. I feel honored. I feel special.

I wanted to rent a car, but I just didnt have the money when it came down to all the deposits and all ( $400.00) so I was like Lord, Im coming to meet you. make a way for me. He said to me; Use your own car? Im like Lord nooooooooooo I never like to use my own car while driving a long distance. He said to me well who are you going to meet? Im like YOU! He said well listen to me and do as I say. I made up my mind right then and there, my car as neverrrrrrrrrr gave me any problems so why would I think it would  now? So here I am! lolllll Im laughing cause its funny. I would “hope” that it would make it if I was going to see someone I like ( Gerald Levert) for instances, but when I’m coming to meet the Lord, my faith is shot! Jesus help me! Where is my Faith I wonder sometimes. ( lol)

AFter the concference this morning, I came home and told God that I was sleepy! I said Lord, we are going to talk as soon as I wake up okay? And I could hear satan say……..  you going to sleep on him?  Then I heard God say……gurlllllll gon to sleep I will be here when you wake up. lol I went to sleep ( still feeling a little guilty) and when I woke up I was feeling sooooooooooooooooooo good! OMGOODNESS. I felt like a new person!!!!! He was like see.. Now you can give me your full attention. I got up washed my face, brushed my teeth, got out my snack, pulled out my bible, pen and studying tools and whewwwwwwwww he crammed some stuff in my head. And its all written down. lollll I love him!

So here I am after about 3 hours later . I had to get out and do some walking in the hotel. In in this buisness room on the computer, and now Im going over to the resturant O’ Malleys to get me something it eat. Its 9:44 pm here.

I miss writting your guys at home. Soon as I get there Im going to get my computer fixed so that I can get back to fellowshipping with you all. I love you all and think about yall sooooooooooooo much. I really do.

God loves us. and if you make time to be with him, he will show up! And my weekend is not done yet! Do it right now, set a weekend apart to be with him ALONE. Not with Niecy and Nem, not with Pudding and Sheritta, not with Mike and Anothoy, but ALONE!

Men you too do it! It dont have to be by hotel, it can be right there in your home. Think about it!

Lacrease

Lately, I have been watching a marathon of Bibical movies. I watched Passion of the Christ, The Gospel of Paul, The greastest story ever told, and a few more. And I cried on each one of them, thinking to myself, Lord, what have Ive been doing with my time? His messages of Loving each other is so clear so in our faces, that its not even funny. He tells us to watch. Then I look back at my life when I was off the dogone chain and say to myself, God let me do all those things, he never stopped me, but since I dont do any of it any more, what am I doing to help the next person?

To sit back and be doing nothing is not acceptable. He gave us gifts are we using them? Are we learning from our expericnces and telling them to the next person. Or are we too embarresed to discuss them? Are we soaking in sin as a dish rag soak in water from a bucket of dishes? As time is up for a mother who has lost her son to a car accident, so will be our time when we can no longer minister. Ask yourself, what am I feeding my yahoo family when they come to my page to read my blog? Ask yourself what kinds of food are you serving them? Life or death? Is it fresh fruits and vegetables, or maggets and worms?

God is not playing with us. If yahoo 360 is your on air radio. LETS SPEAK LIFE……………….DO YOU WANT GOD TO ASK YOU WHY DID YOU LEAD THEM TO HELL??

Lacrease

 

Hey ( Sigh)

To all my single sisters/brothers. Do you ever wonder why you are single sometimes? I know there are some areas that I need to brush up on, but I really wonder why I am still single.

Maybe Im too hard on men. I must admit, when I hear guys say “she cooked for me” and Im like saying to myself ” nicka what have you done so great to deserve a home cook meal’? Did you work today and tell me of the plans you made for a week in Florida? Did you take one of my phone bill stubs and paid my bill? Did you go to the grocery store and buy dinner “on the strength of”? Did you come over my house and clean up while I wasnt feeling well? Im just trying to understand the motivation of why women cook for men they just meet?

Now dont get me wrong. I can see it in a relationship. But men love home cook meals and they are like cats in the department…………………..they will come back. I mean, I just cant see myself going in my refrigerator looking at my steaks, salad and bake potatoes  offering it to him, when he can at ANY TIME say to me~ when I ask him to do something special …….WE DONT GO TOGETHER…….WE AINT A COUPLE……….I AINT YOUR MAN……..WE AINT SLEPT TOGETHER……..AINT NO RING ON MY FINGER.

For now, I rather let the resturants cook for us. After he is my husband……………………its on and poppin! Until then, I’ll by dinner day, he;ll buy the other, he’ll buy another day, and I’ll buy…..and so on and so on.

Making dinner, eating home cook meals for a man should be personal. Not for ALL the men we meet and date.

What are your thoughts?

 

 

Hey Family!

Happy Fourth of July! Whats for dinner? What did you do today? Where did you go? Did any family members ack up? Any husbands or men cook? How was your day?

There are a lot of things that I would love to do if I came into a lot of money. I’m talking hit a big lottery for boocoo money. I can name a few things that I would do FIRST! But after I buy a new home, give my family some money, furnish my place, take care of Neisha, buy us trucks and thangs ( lol). There is one thing on my list that I MUST do.

Picture the scenio with the people you know, as if you are the one with  all this money.

Without anyone knowing my business. I would invite 20 of my closes child hood, co workers, and friends to a secret location here in Detroit.

I would hand deliver or send invitations to those people. Asking them to meet me ( no cell phones allowed) along with 19 other guest, for a day of fun. I wouldnt tell them what it is, what we are doing, what it is for, or nothing. And if they cant make it…………………..they would truly miss out. There will be no pressure, just simply a nay or yea.

First we would eat dinner, laugh and talk.

Then we will get down to business. I would have a list of questions to answer. No one will sit together,  and no talking allowed for this part of the evening. For example: If you own your own home, how much do you owe the bank? If someone were to give you a lump sum of money how much would you want, and what would you do with it? What is your dream car or truck?What bill of yours would you like to be paid off?

After all of the papers have been collected by my “helpers”.  I would gathered up all infomation and fullfill their dreams!

And for the final finale, I would have a drawing for a beautiful TRUCK that is outside with a bow on it.

I alwaysssssss think about this. So I ask myself. Do I want someone to do me like this, or is it that I want to see my friends as happy as I am? I mean for real…………..who wants to be happy…………without their friends sharing in their joy?

Share your thoughts .

Lacrease