
Living to Learn Life Lessons
I spent time with my Raisingurls Sunday afternoon, they wanted to come over and do lessons versus going out to a movie. So, I picked them up , we did lessons talked about EVERYTHING. They are so funny. But we did come across an issue that is very serious, and that’s selfishness. I have 2 cousins in the group, one is selfish and the other is always offering to buy when the other doesn’t have money, but when the cousin who is selfish has money, she wont offer the other cousin anything. And that really hurt her feelings. I felt bad, because the cousin who is selfish said to her cousin” well, you offer to buy me something on your own, I didn’t ask you”. So, since her cousin offered, she feels that’s the difference. She wasnt getting the fact that her cousin don’t  want to see her go without, all she kept saying was ” she don’t have to offer me anything”. Wow, after so many minutes of talking with her, I made her realize that her cousin loves her, and that she has her back at all times. If she doesn’t straighten up, she’s going to lose her cousin trust, and friendship as they get older. It shouldnt be that way at all. The hurt in the cousins eyes was evident.